Friday, August 24, 2012

Wrap me up baby!


I explained a little in this post about babywearing and today i'm going to give you the basics on the different styles of carriers!



First up we have the stretchy wrap- the one above is a boba wrap (formerly sleepy wrap) but moby is also a popular brand. They are snuggly and t-shirt-like and perfect for newborns. They tend to get saggy around 15lbs though and should never ever be used in a back carry (check this video out).


Next is the Soft Structured carriers (SSC's)- the most common and easily found are the Beco (left), Ergo (right), and Boba. There are TONS of other SSC's out there- these are simply the more easily available kinds. (also please note that there are counterfeit ergos- do your homework and don't jeopardize baby's safety!) These carriers have buckles to adjust and are fairly user friendly. They aren't the best for newborns although it is possible to use them with an infant insert. They can also be used in front, back and some allow for hip carry as well although they can be confusing for hip carries.



The Mei Tai (MT) is similar to SSC's except instead of buckles you tie the staps. They can be used in front or back carries. The one above with the dinos and birds is my custom Ultimate Mama/Man Carrier from NuzzleMe Creations (they do AMAZING work!) and the green/blue MT is a Hopp tye we tried on at a playdate. Other common ones are BBtai and Babyhawk. They are easily adjustable between wearers and are easily rolled up and stowed away. For the most comfortable wear with SSC's and MT's you want baby to sit in the carrier and have it go knee to knee which distributes the weight better making them much lighter feeling and is easier on both wearer and wearee's bodies. This is part of the reason carriers like bjorn are so uncomfortable and heavy after baby gets bigger.


Ring slings are great for easy in and out making them fast and easy for quick trips or toddlers who only like to be up for short spurts. Both slings above are wrap conversion ring slings (WCRS) meaning they were made from woven wraps (BBSlen Pineapple on the left, PAXbaby exclusive Girasol double rainbow in the middle and Jillian, owner of PAXbaby, has a easycare #1 on her shoulder). Check out Sleeping Baby Productions if you find a wrap you want converted and she often has very affordable slings made in other materials- she does fabulous work and is very reputable.


Woven wraps are the most versatile and are comfy from infancy through toddlerhood (and beyond!). They can have a bit of a learning curve since there are TONS of ways to wear them but you can easily do front, back and hip carries. They come in different lengths/sizes- most recommend starting with a size 6 if you're average. Check out this handy chart for different carries and youtube. (BabywearingFaith and PAXbaby are great!) Some wrap makers are Girasol, Storchenweige, BBSlen, Dolcino, Kokadi, Didymos, and Natibaby.

(Wraps in photo above: top row: Natibaby Bamboo turquoise diamonds, Storchenweige Vicky, BBSlen Prunella. 2nd row: Ellevil Zara dyed Hot pink, Girasol Snow rainbow, Didymos Pink Punkte. 3rd row Didymos Old Standard Lago dyed Plumberry, Girasol Amitola Azafan weft, and Snow rainbow again)

This was just a little intro to the common different types of carriers and I hope it helps! If you have any questions feel free to ask!


Saturday, August 4, 2012

ROYGBIV

WOW! What a FANTASTIC week we've had here! Started the week off with church and then a dear friends baby shower. Then a few relaxing days at home doing awesome stuff with the family like decorating our sidewalk and practicing our ABC's....
WAR EAGLE!

And then we went to the Jelly Belly factory for the FIRST time (can you believe that? we've been 15 min away from it for 4years!) with a couple dear friends, some new dear friends and the FABULOUS Jillian from PAXbaby!

The whole group!

Rosie and me!

Rosie and Mrs. Jillian

Me, Rosie and our favorite Rainbow Mama!

My lovely new friend and her daughter who is 5 days younger than Rosie!

Jillian wearing Rosie and my friend Lexie wearing her daughter in my wrap!

Me helping the hubby put Sonshine on!

Afterwards we went out to dinner with some fantastic new friends and then I got a massage the next day as well as getting groceries....I will desperately miss Larry's produce when we move! I got ALL this for only $35 there!


THEN yesterday we drove down to another PAXbaby playdate! I got to see more of my beautiful babywearing mamas and Jillian again!


The girls chilling while...

we enjoyed a picnic lunch!

Then later I got to toss Sonshine up in Jillian's Double Rainbow Obimama!

Later, while driving home, we saw this off the side of the road...
Well...we all know what happened next ;p

Overall I have to say this has been one of the most amazing weeks I've had in a long time!! My hubby was an absolute ANGEL this week and I'm so thankful for him indulging all my whims! I intend to see all my lovely babywearing mamas as much as i can before we move next month! (yikes!! thats sooooo soon!!). The hubby will be going back to work next week which means that I need to get back to keeping the house, getting stuff together for a yard sale, back to eating right and working out to lose this weight and of course taking care of my beautiful Rose and Sonshine!
A BIG THANK YOU to PAXbaby for including us on their fabulous trip and to all my babywearing mamas for being just so darn AWESOME!
(and I suddenly feel the need to tye dye EVERYTHING! hehe...)




Be sure to check Jillian out on FB at PAXbaby and her site here: http://paxbaby.com/

Monday, July 16, 2012

Together At Last!

5 days ago some pretty AMAZING stuff happened...My sweet Rose turned 1 month


AND She met her daddy for the FIRST time!




(Onesie courtesy of Mad Alli Designs-https://www.facebook.com/MadAlliDesigns)

SO my beautiful little family is once again complete!

And remember that "first" kiss i was looking forward to?


It was PERFECT!

(Homecoming photos courtesy of the FABULOUS J. Vendetti Photography https://www.facebook.com/pages/JVendetti-Photography/245070422247138)

Since then we've been enjoying every.single.moment.
Like...
His First "real" meal 

His First time wearing her!
(in a Didymos Pink Punkte shorty)

Our first family walk!
(Rose in a Beco Butterfly II and Sonshine in a Custom UMC Mei Tai)

Lots of adjustments going on of course (he tends to leave toilet seats up after he comes home from deployments) but...life is pretty sweet <3

Monday, July 9, 2012

Top 5

So, today's post was inspired by the many, many, MANY posts and pins I've seen with mama's giving their advice to new moms and well...my advice to all my lovely new momma's and momma's to be is as follows:

#1 Do your homework...PLEASE! I would get on my hands and knees and beg you in person if I could! learn everything you can and both sides of the debate....know WHY you do the things you choose to do! I don't care what you ultimately decide is best for your family-that's your decision and I will respect you completely for it! You may be set on using disposable diapers but would it hurt to spend a little time looking into cloth diapers? Proper babywearing? "extended" rear-facing? Breastfeeding past a year? (the list goes on and on)...all the information can get a little overwhelming at times which leads me to....

#2 RELAX!!! I say this to my lovely mama friends ALL the time....and they say it to me too of course! Honestly i find doing my homework helpful for relaxing...I didn't stress when Rose lost a little weight after she was born since I knew that most breastfed babies lose weight at first! 

#3 WEAR YOUR BABY! it will save your sanity and you can't spoil them...I promise...but don't wear them in a crotch dangler like a bjorn please....and if you must wear them facing out please do it only in short increments! (why? here's some links! http://theecofriendlyfamily.com/2012/02/babywearing-why-forward-facing-isnt-for-you/ 
I didn't wear Sonshine as much although i wish i did...things would of been even easier! Rose though is worn a good portion of the day every day...because let's face it...she demands attention AND so does Sonshine AND things still need to get done...in fact tonight i tried everything BUT wearing her and i finally tossed her in her beautiful BBSlen Pineapple ringsling and now she looks like this!

*If you're interested in babywearing check out this fb group https://www.facebook.com/groups/377237985638946/ 
and if you're looking to buy a GOOD carrier check out http://paxbaby.com/ - the owner, Jillian, is a sweet & fabulous mama! They also have a rental program and a 90 day risk free trial!

#4 You *might* have mixed feelings after the birth and that's okay! I was in complete shock after I had Sonshine at how much my body changed and bawled my eyes out over it! I had a complete meltdown about it! But you know what? I AM GORGEOUS! (Thank you to the hubby for reminding me at the time hehe)

#5 Cuddle that baby like CRAZY! Remember that it will end....the saddest thing about babies is they GROW UP! So when they are driving you nuts, crying, nursing like crazy, pinching, pooping everywhere, keeping you from your precious sleep etc etc....JUST KEEP SWIMMING and enjoy it...because before you know it they won't wake up at night to snuggle, they won't be grinning at you in between sucks when they nurse and their sweet gummy smiles will be a distant memory...

So there's my top 5 at least...<3

Monday, July 2, 2012

Just a little info on EC...

I don't really remember where or when i first learned about Elimination Communication (EC)...it could of been while browsing forums, our natural parenting group or some other facebook group where it was mentioned...anyways since Sonshine was already well into his toddler years i didn't really look into it. Then, I learned that we were expecting Rose and decided to find out more about this "EC thing". So since i've had lots of questions come my way i thought writing a post would help clear things up a little (or at least save me a lot of typing every time someone asks)

Although EC is also often referred to as "infant potty training" i feel like that doesn't describe it as well as the term elimination communication- just like we know when our children are hungry or cold we also know when they have to go the bathroom- we just have to learn how to communicate with them. I truly believe that we, as humans, are born with the instinct to NOT soil ourselves and that we learn to ignore that instinct as infants because we have no other choice- we can't take ourselves to the bathroom at that age! So all EC is is learning the signs our baby gives us and responding appropriately by giving them the opportunity to go somewhere besides their own pants. I know in Rose's case she will refuse to nurse if she has to go and of course the obvious signs like passing gas and crying. I simply take the white bowl insert from our bjorn potty and sit it in my lap and hold her over it- letting her lean back on me. I "cue" her when she goes by making a "pssss" sound and so far she's gone every time i've offered her the potty. We're very laid back about it and i decided we would be from the beginning- she's still in cloth diapers most of the time and i give her chances throughout the day, usually when i can tell she has to go as well as at diaper changes, and if she goes she goes and well...that's one less diaper to clean! (and another "catch" i can brag about!)

SO while its only been 3 weeks i have had a lot of questions come my way! I'm going to try to answer some that i know i've been asked but feel free to ask me anything and i'll try my best to answer! Also i will list some resources for you to check out on your own!

Does it help them potty train sooner? overall i would think yes but no two children are the same and while most EC'd kids are diaperfree fairly soon that doesn't mean they won't still have accidents or go through periods where they are just too busy to stop and go the bathroom...still you can expect that they will be pretty potty trained by the age of 2 

Is it hard? Nope....it REALLY isn't- it IS intimidating at first I won't lie BUT how hard is it to sit there for a few minutes with your baby? shoot I have managed (picture this! lol) to have Rose on the potty while nursing her AND building an amazing block tower with Sonshine- trust me that took some skill! 

She looks like she's crying- maybe she doesn't like it? She's a newborn! The world is a big scary place to her! she doesn't always cry but sometime she does....usually when she's about to poop...which is VERY normal! Most parents don't realize that the reason they are inconsolable could be because they need to eliminate- there have already been times when NOTHING else i tried worked and so i put her over the potty and a few minutes later BAM! She's pottied and is now a happy camper again! 

That was just a few questions and i hope that it helps some- its getting late so i can't remember everything i wanted to say and i could probably babble on for days but i'm sure there will be more posts in the future. In the meantime here are some resources if you are curious about EC and knowing more!

 Diaper Free Baby (i have this book! its great!)
--Diaper Free Baby's website (the book's website as well as 75 benefits of EC and other info!)

Facebook Groups


Me & Rose at 9 days old EC'ing!
(and we had a "catch"!)

Monday, June 25, 2012

Mantra

Happy 2 weeks old Rose! She's really starting to change now...which makes me a little sad since i don't want my hubby to keep missing things :/ She definitely reminds me of her daddy and her brother A LOT. Sonshine is a spitting image of me so its nice to see that Rose looks like her daddy at least a little! I'm SO excited that he'll be home from our second deployment in about two weeks.
My mantra the past 6 months?
JUST KEEP SWIMMING...

2 year old throws massive tantrum over the fact that you can't magically produce strawberries?

JUST KEEP SWIMMING...

People decide to cause drama for you for no good reason?

JUST KEEP SWIMMING...

Get diagnosed with gestational diabetes (which you failed by one point)?

JUST KEEP SWIMMING...

Getting induced at 39 weeks due to prenatal complications and hubby is still gone?

JUST KEEP SWIMMING...

The list can go on and on of course and perhaps i should add "and laugh" to my mantra because some things you can't help but laugh at- like when comcast was calling and pestering me because their autopay screwed up and didn't pay them that month. Well, they were about to get paid in 5 days anyways so i ignored the calls  for the most part- one i picked up and it was a machine telling me to call them (really?! they have machines calling people to tell them to call comcast?!) and the second time i picked up it was a very rude woman who asked to speak to my hubby (the account holder) and well...i told her he was unavailable and since she cut me off before i could say he was deployed by asking to have him call when he's available I told her "I will tell him to do that" (uhhhhh....yeah..... NO). *bwahahahaha!* OR when the doctor informed me that i was depressed according to the stupid depression quiz they give you at the end of your pregnancy (i assume to see if you'll be more likely to have postpartum depression) and I told her they didn't ask the right questions! like "where is your husband currently located?" or "Are you currently living with any 2 year olds?" or "Are you currently having pregnancy cravings for cheesecake AND have gestational diabetes?!" 
And can you believe she then proceeded to ask if I thought i needed medication?!!?
LMAO!!!!

But seriously...I can't wait for the hubby to come home....we get another "first kiss" and he gets to finally meet his baby girl! I know Sonshine remembers him although I'm not quite sure how he'll react when daddy gets home. I'm sure he'll be ecstatic to have his favorite playmate back though! 

Monday, June 18, 2012

1 week

Rose is 1 week old today! She's doing fabulous-she has an official weight check tomorrow but i weighed her here at home and she weighed about 8lbs 4oz meaning she gained back the weight she lost and then some!

EC has been going GREAT! I had decided before she was born that I would be very laid back about things (which comes naturally to me as it is...) and wouldn't put any pressure on any of us to catch every single time she goes. We've been catching both poop and pee a few times a day and she's fairly predictable. She actually calms down when she "assumes the position" and just lets everything go. 

Sonshine is definitely still adjusting to not being an only child...I'm very grateful to have Grammie staying with us for a bit while he adjusts...i think it would be much more difficult without her here to give him the attention that i can't always give him when he wants. I will have to be a "single" mom for a week when Grammie leaves since the hubby will still be gone for about a week. 

This morning I hit a major milestone though! I am at my prepregnancy weight! Well...my pre-pregnancy #2 at least....I still have about 40lbs to lose to be pre-Sonshine and then ideally another 15-20lbs to be in the healthy weight range for my height. Thankfully i have two fantastic models to help me out- my mom has lost about 60lbs and my stepdad lost about 140lbs (so far). They look fantastic and I'm incredibly proud of them!